Are they a functioning member in society. Do know that dating an MD, there will be plenty of unexpected changes when you two have plans, and you will need to have strength and be able to entertain yourself at times. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. It is an act of faith.
Best wishes in whatever you decide. I"am a man married to a female doctor with two daughters one is five years of age the other two and a half. If not watch it. Do not expect anything long term. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this.
I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. I was in your same position years ago. I would suggest having a list of chores that need to be done, and anyone can check them off. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. Pray about it and follow your heart.
I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. I have so often heard wow you married a doctor The truth is I will always come second to his job and he will never know how lonely I am for him to put me first. Blogroll By Common Consent C. I'd at least insist that at 12 the kids can choose to disaffiliate.