What is it? Does every person with a vagina have one? Is it supposed to look like that? That flap is your clitoral hood, a fold of skin that surrounds and protects your glans clitoris.
For the longest time I thought my oversized clitoris was wrong, abnormal and gross. The only organ in my body whose sole purpose was sexual pleasure was the thing bringing me the most displeasure. When I was a preteen, part of me thought I might be intersex. All I saw was tiny, almost nonexistent and neatly tucked clits that looked nothing like mine. I spent most of my formative years avoiding sexual encounters because I was afraid guys would be disgusted by my clit. Outside of porn and very disappointing sex ed, nobody had taught me that vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, textures and hues.
Mobile users - turn your phone sideways and zoom in as needed! Hi, I saw the pictures of vulvas on this site. I have large labia which made me insecure about myself in my teenage years. Now, thanks to my lovely partner, I have learned to love them - and guess what? I am even ready to send pictures of my pussy for your site!
I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. I have recently got admission in PhD and would be joining shortly. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. It has to do with their character. I have no support system; you are so fortunate to have weekly dates with your DH. Once he's out of training, though, the medical marriage is much like any other marriage and the success strategies are really all the same.