First, get undressed and lie on your back using a pillow for neck support. Your legs should be bent and spread, feet together in butterfly position. If this makes your hips uncomfortable on one or both sides,. Your guy should sit to your right side on top of at least two pillows and straddle his bent left leg perpendicularly across her torso, foot flat on the opposite side. It almost looks as if he's on top in reverse cowgirl position, except his weight will be to the side of your torso. Have him separate your labia and retract the clitoral hood upward with the heel of the palm.
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Oh!-minus 15 Minutes: Your Orgasm Guide
You're probably raising your eyebrows right now -- either in skepticism or interest -- but hear us out! Author Timothy Ferris, with the help of sex experts, claims to have unlocked the secrets to the long female orgasm. In his book, The 4-Hour Body , he shares tips that helped him give his partner two extended orgasms, plus a minute orgasm! It's important to locate your wife's clitoris, G-spot, or any area that requires stimulation in order to climax.
MAN: Finally gets to go downtown and fumbles to get his hand where it counts. MAN: Starts random up-and-down or circular motion, hoping to God he can hit the spot and not be surprised. MAN: Shifts technique or goes into overdrive, and woman asks him to slow down.
When Leslie Selene was younger, her mother explained to her that the female orgasm could be used to access spiritual states. The first time she ever masturbated, she understood. That's because Selene's orgasms last minutes, sometimes even hours. She says they make her feel at one with the universe, "flooded with light, fueling up on that goodness," as the feeling "moves through the body, out and around. It wasn't until she was an adult that she learned that most people only climax for a split second.