No respect for people's time or relationships. So there's THAT to look forward to. I love my husband so much, but 40 years of loneliness has been more than difficult.
You have to come second right now. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. Did you ask him to drop you off and he refused, or were you hoping he'd think of it himself. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. I do get the odd text but now with 3 weeks to his exam, calls are out of the question. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women.
If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. And some will do that. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.
It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this. It's called selfishness and inability to set priorities. I would never change my decision to marry him. Be direct and get your needs met. But at the hospital, I'm helping the other guy who was injured when his car wrecked six hours ago, and I can't just bail.